Understanding Loneliness vs. Solitude
Posted by siteadmin on August 18, 2026
Understanding Loneliness vs. Solitude
In both personal and professional life, it is common to confuse being alone with experiencing loneliness. However, the distinction between the two is vital for mental wellbeing
Solitude (Being Alone) is a choice. It is a conscious, positive decision to disconnect temporarily to rest, recharge, and find focus.
Loneliness is a state of disconnection. It is not a choice. Because it stems from a lack of meaningful connection, an individual can feel profoundly lonely even while surrounded by colleagues, friends, or family.
Emotional Loneliness often feels like a lack of deep, intimate connection with a specific person, often resulting in - Read More
Past or Present?
Posted by siteadmin on August 13, 2026
Some people wonder why the counselling I offer incorporates looking at their experiences and situations in the past, as well as thinking about what’s happening right now
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If we spend our time living in the past, we miss being able to experience what’s truly happening now or being able to fully embrace new ideas or situations that might benefit us.
Equally, if we spend our time living in the present, we miss being able to reflect and grow, extend our choices or make different decisions as we will always come up with - Read More
Is counselling right for me?
Posted by siteadmin on August 9, 2026
I know the path is steep right now,
And heavy clouds hang on your brow.
But take a breath, and look at me —
You have more strength than you can see.
I will sit here by your side,
Through every rough and turning tide.
You survived the storm that brought you here;
You have the truth to face the fear.
Together we will see it through,
And find the path that’s right for you.
You are unbroken, wise, and true —
Step forward now, and trust in you.
www.counsellingsuffolk-norfolk.co.uk Sarah Coe – Individual Counselling
Grief Counselling
Posted by siteadmin on May 18, 2026
“When I lost my person, I didn’t just feel sad. I felt messy. Out of nowhere, old hurts and family stuff I thought I’d dealt with years ago came flooding back. I started counselling thinking we’d just talk about the loss. Instead, you helped me look under the hood at how my whole past shapes how I handle pain. You didn’t give me generic advice or tell me to look on the bright side. You just sat with me while I figured out the knots in my head. I’m still grieving, but the weight doesn’t feel like it’s crushing me - Read More
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