Care & Connection

Posted by on May 16, 2024

Back from a weeks break and just sitting in my office reflecting on my time.

Where ever I am in my life be that my physical or inner presence , the people I care about come into my thoughts. They may rest a while and then continue on their way or they may sit a while longer before moving on. In those moments often I learn something about that person that perhaps I hadn’t seen before or it confirms something that feels important for me and perhaps then also for them.

Wherever I travel between those times when I am next with - Read More

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What were you told you’re not?

Posted by on May 1, 2024

What were you told you’re not?

Not sporty, not careful, not academic, not quiet, not practical, not thoughtful, not funny, not handsome, not sociable, not beautiful, not deserving, not…not…not

This can equate for many a innate sense of not feeling good enough, low self worth, low self esteem, a sense of lacking or being lesser in some way, low confidence and so much pain with . Pain that can show itself in depression and anxiety, skin conditions, ruminating, flu like symptoms, constant aches and pains, headaches, sickness…in short any way the body can try to express that sense of deep sadness and - Read More

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Emotional Wellbeing Information services

Posted by on March 14, 2024

Suffolk has a range of wellbeing services to support children and young people in our community.

The Source is a great user friendly and highly accessible website providing information, advice and support for young people. Their contact details are

The Emotional Wellbeing service is also available for children and young people aged 0-25 years.

From their website you can access confidential information, advice and support for children, young people families and professionals. You can also make a referral about the emotional wellbeing or a child or young person in east and west Suffolk and get information about emotional wellbeing support and local - Read More

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You matter

Posted by on December 15, 2023

My clients remain in my thoughts between our appointments together and breaks in our work together because I genuinely without any hidden agenda simply care about them, their lives and their world.

Why? because one person did this for me and changed the direction on my life.

I am here , for them, with them when their internal weather is a tornedo or a sunset, walking side by side with them if they can allow me to share in their world as they experience it.

It can be so hard for them to put themselves as a priority in their own life but - Read More

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ANNUAL HOLIDAY 21st November-7th December inclusive

Posted by on November 14, 2023

I am away on Annual Holiday Tuesday 21st November – 7th December inclusive

Upon my return, please know that messages received via email, contact form or my confidential contact numbers will be responded to as soon as I am able to during my working hours 9am-9pm.

If you, or someone you are concerned for is in crisis, please call 999 or contact the Samaritans 116 123 (24 hour helpline)

Sarah Coe

Psychodynamic Counsellor MBACP

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Complex Needs / Borderline Personality Disorder

Posted by on November 14, 2023

I attended an exceptional workshop in Chelmsford this weekend looking at our Complex Needs population – more often referred to as individuals exhibiting Borderline Personality disorder / emotionally unstable personality disorder.

It is often widely misunderstood and can be chaotically handled / mishandled in healthcare systems often meaning that individuals are treated for individual symptoms such as depression, eating disorders, generalised anxiety, substance abuse, relationship difficulties, self harm/suicide attempts in adolescence and adulthood without recognising the fuller picture that so much more is happening for these individuals.

Individuals with complex needs will very often have experience significant trauma particularly around relationships in - Read More

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Annual holiday break -5th May until Wednesday 17th May inclusive.

Posted by on April 27, 2023

Please note that I am away on annual holiday from Friday 5th May until Wednesday 17th May inclusive. Emails or voice messages received during this time will be responded to as quickly as possible on my return

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April 2023 – The new walkway to the Cabin is finished!

Posted by on April 10, 2023

After a few days work the wider walkway is complete

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New Year…New you?

Posted by on January 5, 2023

“I’ll start it in the New Year”..

It’s something we often say or hear but what does that actually mean?

“I can’t face this right now”

“I want to put this off /avoid it as long as possible”

“I don’t want to think about this”

But what if you did?

What’s stopped you up until now?

What’s stopping you now?

What is so important is to ask the questions of yourself without judgement but with curiosity instead…

You aren’t alone and sometimes it’s just so hard or frightening or worrying or confusing to follow through with what we feel might change our lives for the better.

Give yourself a moment - Read More

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