Grief Counselling
Posted by siteadmin on May 18, 2026
“When I lost my person, I didn’t just feel sad. I felt messy. Out of nowhere, old hurts and family stuff I thought I’d dealt with years ago came flooding back. I started counselling thinking we’d just talk about the loss. Instead, you helped me look under the hood at how my whole past shapes how I handle pain. You didn’t give me generic advice or tell me to look on the bright side. You just sat with me while I figured out the knots in my head. I’m still grieving, but the weight doesn’t feel like it’s crushing me - Read More
What’s on your mind?
Posted by siteadmin on April 30, 2026
“What’s on your mind?”
Honestly, where do I start?
Where does anyone start?
Often, the things we carry—the thoughts, the worries, the “stuff”—stay tucked away in the back of our minds. But during counselling, those things have a way of moving.
Sometimes they rush right to the front. Other times, they get pushed to the edge or stay exactly where they are until we’re ready to look at them.
Our brains can feel like complex filing systems, and sometimes just trying to pick the right “file” to open can feel like a massive challenge.
If your files feel a bit jumbled lately, please know that - Read More
The Magic of “US”
Posted by siteadmin on April 9, 2026
The Magic of “Us”
Togetherness isn’t just about being in the same room; it’s a powerful source of strength that transforms our individual experiences into something far more resilient.
When we choose togetherness, we aren’t just adding more people to our lives—we are multiplying our ability to cope, grow, and thrive.
Why Togetherness is Your Best Tool for Well-being:
* It’s an Emotional Anchor:
Having even one person who is truly present and responsive can be life-changing. It provides a “safe haven” where you can be vulnerable and known.
* It Reshapes Your Challenges:
When we face life alone, a setback can feel like a mountain. When - Read More
When anxiety feels like it’s taking over
Posted by siteadmin on April 2, 2026
When anxiety feels like it’s taking over, even the smallest tasks can feel like climbing a mountain.
If your mind is racing or your chest feels tight today, please know you’re not alone. In the UK, millions of people are navigating these same feelings, and it’s okay to admit that things are tough right now.
Here is your gentle reminder to:
Exhale. Try to make your out-breath longer than your in-breath.
Ground yourself. Find three things you can see and two things you can hear.
Be kind. You wouldn’t judge a friend for feeling this way; try to offer that same - Read More
** Appointments Available**
Posted by siteadmin on April 1, 2026
** Appointments Available**** Free Initial Consultation**Are you considering counselling?Maybe you aren’t sure if it’s the right path for you or what it may entail?To find out how I work, what I offer and how I may support you please visit How I work – Sarah Coe (MBACP) – Individual Counselling or visit my counselling directory profile Counsellor Sarah Coe – Bury St. Edmunds – Counselling DirectoryPlease know that I currently have limited availability to accept new clients and all enquiries are dealt with in the strictest confidence.
Depression – one persons story
Posted by siteadmin on February 5, 2026
“This morning I argued with my wife. I had asked her to do something and she had done it differently to how I asked. I got upset and asked her am I so unimportant to you that you have to do everything your way as if my feelings, thoughts and decisions don’t matter?
She was confused by my outburst, by the tears running done my face.
After ranting at her for another few minutes telling her how useless I felt and unworthy
she told me that she didn’t feel that way about me, that it was how my depression felt about me and - Read More
Lets talk about Anxiety
Posted by siteadmin on June 26, 2025
Let’s Talk About Anxiety: You’re Not Alone
Anxiety isn’t just “nerves” or “overthinking.” It’s a very real response to feeling unsafe, overwhelmed, or uncertain—even when everything around you seems fine. And if that’s how you’ve been feeling lately, you’re not broken. You’re human.
Anxiety can show up in many different ways: racing thoughts, a tight chest, avoiding things that used to be easy. Sometimes it makes you feel like you’re living in fast-forward, struggling to find the pause button.
You are not weak. Living with anxiety means your brain is trying to protect you—even if it’s a little overprotective.
You don’t have to manage - Read More
Counselling as method for dealing with psychological distress
Posted by siteadmin on May 22, 2025
This book was one of the first “counselling” books I read many years ago; “Counselling for Toads” by Robert de Board.
Using the characters of Kenneth Grahame’s Wind in the Willows it follows Toad who is experiencing a depressed state and his good friends Rat, Mole and Badger who are afraid “he might do something silly”.
“First they nursed him. Then they encouraged him. Then they told him to pull himself together….Finally Badger could stand it no longer…”Now look here Toad, this can go on no longer,” he said sternly. “There is only one thing left. You must have counselling!”
Such a fabulous - Read More
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